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Enjoying your wedding day

Your wedding day has come! One of the most beautiful days of your life. But you are so stressed and afraid that a disaster may happen that you just can’t relax. Now, just take a deep breath, start counting to ten and than just stop worrying and start enjoying. After all, it is the first day of a new life, your life as a couple. You don't want to begin it being all tense and nervous.

Here are some tips that may help you get rid of the tension:

  1. The week before the wedding go one last time thorough your wedding checklist. Be sure everybody knows exactly what to do and when to come.
  1. Have a long, relaxing bath the evening before the event. Pamper yourself! Go to bed early. A good nights sleep will to miracles for your mood.
  1. Turn off your mobile phone on the wedding day. Your wedding coordinator can take the phones if there is a last minute problem.
  1. As a bride stop panicking that your make up will not be gorgeous, your hair will look awful, the guests will not be satisfied with the reception.
  1. As a groom don't be afraid that your bride will freak out and will let you stand alone in the church.
  1. Somehow weddings have this incredible effect to bring out the worse in the bride and groom's parents. Choose not to battle. Think that they may be as stressed as you are and they don't really mean what they're saying. And anyway, you will have plenty of time later to deal with them.
  1. No matter how carefully you've planned everything, no matter how well your double check went, unforeseeable things may happen: the best man can come late, the power can go down for a couple of minutes, it may start raining. The best thing is to keep a sense of humor. After the wedding you will laugh when remembering them.
  1. Forget about “what if”. Don't provoke the destiny. 'Studies have shown that almost half the things that people get stressed about simply might happen' (Buxman). So think positive. Don't let yourself be influenced by the negative thinkers.
  1. Your wedding day is the celebration of your love. Smile and kiss your future spouse. Touch each other and make yourself the time to tell her/him how much you love him/her, how happy you two are/will be. Give yourselves couple of private moments. It is your wedding day.
  1.  Smile and laugh a lot. Let your emotion be seen. Everybody else will take your example.

And remember that no one is perfect, so why would you expect nothing but perfection. On your wedding day you have to be happy and to enjoy it.

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